After last week's discussion on phone sex, I had a couple of lovely Flowers ask me for phone sex schooling. Woo hoo! One of my favorite subjects. Here we go!
Allow plenty of time! At least an hour if this is your first time, or first time with a new partner.
Get rid of distractions -- turn the TV off (unless you are watching porn, hehe), kick out the pets (I was on the phone with someone who was loud and he scared the crap out his dog and the dog started barking his head off. It was frikkin hilarious. WOOF!), and get rid of any other potential coitus interruptus.
Sometimes you have to work up to it a bit. If it's your first time with a partner, it's hard (heh) to just rush right in to a scenario. A few tips on getting to "the good stuff"....talk about sex in general. Likes, dislikes. Ask your partner about their fantasies. Find something common, that you both enjoy doing, having done to you, or are interested in trying. Pay attention -- do they have a favorite position? Use that if they do!
Taking the time to talk about this stuff totally gets you both in the mood, loosened up, and makes it easier to ease in to getting each other off. *grin*
The ultimate keys to hot phone sex -- the two V's.
Vocalization and visualization.
Tell your partner how you feel, what you are doing to yourself, what you wish they were doing to you, what you wish you were doing to them. What would you be doing if you were in the same room? Where would your hands be? Where would your lips be? What would you be doing with your tongue? Your fingers? Are you on top, your back, all fours...? Visualize and describe! Play off your partner's response.
If you feel like moaning, MOAN! If you feel like screaming, SCREAM. Are you hard, wet, or throbbing? Say so!!!! Don't hold back! If you are close to cumming, scream it. When you do cum, describe it if you can! If you can't talk, scream, yell, hollar, moan and pant! Tell your partner that you want to feel them throb and cum with you, inside you, on you...It's all about the details details details.
The more vocal you are, the more you give to your partner, and the more you receive in return.
Ooomph.
Feeling rather squirmy for some reason.
*fanning self*
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