Single Grrrrl's Orally Inclined Moves....

Blondage says....I've been pestering Single Grrrrl about writing a post on "Blowjob tips". I think my girls and my boys will both rather enjoy this one! *purrrrrrr*

One of Blondage's readers suggested in comments below somewhere that I should write a post about how to give oral. But I'm reluctant to do it because each man is different and a good blowjob depends on size and situation. So what I'm going to do is describe how I give one and you can take whatever kernels of knowledge you want from it.

I have to preface this with saying that I have certain things I like to do, but only with the permission of the men I'm with. I like giving and receiving rimming, I will slip a finger in a man's ass, things like that. But I almost always ask ahead of time. With the Virgin, I was on my knees in front of him, sucking his cock when I asked if he wanted to try the rimming. He didn't know what it was, so I told him it was me licking his ass. He declined. Which is good because I don't ever want to do something to a man that he isn't going to enjoy. I'm glad he didn't just go along with me because he wanted to please me or allow me to do something I wanted to do, but that he was very uncomfortable with. So on to my orally inclined moves.....

I'm a giver. I like to see a man enjoy himself and I definitely like foreplay, so I like to make out first. Then sometimes, I will ask a man to lie down on his stomach. I will start at his hairline and place soft kisses behind his ears. Move downwards and gently suck his neck. Nibble his shoulders and earlobes. I work my way down from his neck to the small of his back with sucking kisses and tongue swirls and gentle bites. Doing a flat tongue lick from hip, along the ribs, and across the shoulders. Stroking the skin lightly with my fingertips as I work one side of his back to the other.

By this time, he is hard and getting uncomfortable from lying on his stiff cock. I pull his hips up gently so he lifts his weight off of the hardness and I lean down so I can lap at his balls and the skin between them and his ass, slowly working my way closer to his hole. I cup his balls in one hand and pull his asscheek over with the other. I'll lick him from his balls to the top of his ass and back, drawing slow circles around his hole, sometimes working the tip in a fraction. I relax my tongue so it is soft and lick his ass some more.

Then I tell him to lie on his back.

I like lying along his left side, me lying down on my right side, propped up on an elbow and leaning over him. Men like to watch and I notice that a lot of times, he will hold my hair back as he watches my mouth envelope the head and slide down so he's deep throated. I will do that almost immediately, making sure to gently knead his balls in my hand and sometimes pushing his legs out farther because I want to eventually be able to reach his ass. I'll press on the area right behind his balls as I bob my head in very short strokes, the head of his cock back behind the roof of my mouth, the tightness of my throat around him.

I pull back so that the flat of my tongue is pressed right onto the rim or edge of the head. There's a spot...I can't describe it other than to say it would be right where the center of my tongue is when I'm in that position of on my right side and lying along his left. But I've noticed that most men I orally please are very sensitive there...it's a "push button" spot. I stroke my mouth up and down his cock, keeping my tongue tightened and firm and firmly pressed against him. Sometimes I'll swirl my tongue in circles as I come up his shaft. I keep a very slight suction and try to relax my lips, but keep my mouth as closed as possible....slow and steady, listening for any changes in his breathing. With my hand, I will lick the fingers and slide them up the crack of his ass, probing gently for what I seek. I press at the center and start making circles...small and tight at first then bigger, pressing more firmly.

I'll press right in the center, continuing to bob on his cock with a steady rhythm, lots of tongue work, and deep throating. I love feeling my lips pressed up against a man's pubis. If I feel like I'm going to gag, I'll back off a little and go back down. I'll slowly work the tip of my finger into his ass, feeling that tight, smooth muscle. Sometimes, I'll slightly crook my finger so that the tip is against the muscle hard and I'll move in and out slightly, massaging it, feeling it clench and relax. After I've worked my finger all the way in, depending on how familiar a man is with that sort of penetration, I'll either gently fuck his ass with my finger or just use my finger tip to stimulate inside.

At this point, I've usually moved up into a sitting position or the man has moved me around into a 69. That frees up my other hand, The one that I was leaning on, so that I can grab the shaft of the man's cock and start stroking in time to my mouthwork. I will pull my hand up until my fingers bump the sensitive ridge on the head.

At this time, a man is usually so into The Zone that an accidental brush with teeth or a brief pause because my mouth is getting tired is ok, but I always quickly go back to what I'm doing.

When a man is starting to cum...when he has crossed the point where there's no stopping or going back, the head of his cock swells and flares out in my mouth and I increase tempo on everything until he's spurting his load in my mouth. I swallow most of it, but if it is a bit too bitter to swallow, I will let some of it dribble out while I continue to suck until he indicates he can't take it anymore.

And that, Ladies and Gentleman, is how I give a blowjob.